Adam4Adam's Blog World's best free gay dating and hookup site 2017-06-28T02:53:26Z https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/feed/atom/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/cropped-logo-150x150.png Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Survey: Watching Porn When in a Relationship, Is It Cheating?]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15022 2017-06-28T02:53:26Z 2017-06-28T02:53:26Z Say you are in a relationship; would you consider it cheating if your man/boyfriend/partner/ significant other/other half has a habit..

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Say you are in a relationship; would you consider it cheating if your man/boyfriend/partner/ significant other/other half has a habit of watching porn (and jacking off to it)? Is this a deal breaker for you? Why or why not?

When I was younger, the thought of a boyfriend watching porn used to bother me (a little). But then one boyfriend played a porn video on our screen and we watched it together and you can guess what happened from there. You could say my views had changed a lot since then.

I wouldn’t go so far as to call it cheating but I do think SO watching porn would rankle at me if, first, we watch porn too much. It doesn’t matter if we watch it together; if it becomes a regular thing it would appear to me he can’t have sex with me without having to watch porn at the same time. If so, why would that be the case? And second, if he would rather watch porn and jack off to it while watching rather than have sex with me. I mean it does beg the question of why else does he need me around, don’t you think so too?

Anyway, what about you? Do you or don’t you see anything wrong with watching porn while in a relationship? Would you call it cheating? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Health: June 27 is National HIV Testing Day!]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15034 2017-06-27T14:02:04Z 2017-06-27T14:02:04Z gettestedPhoto Credits: HIV.gov Hey, guys! Today is the National HIV Testing Day, are you going to go get tested? According..

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Hey, guys! Today is the National HIV Testing Day, are you going to go get tested?

According to HIV.gov, The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends HIV testing for everyone aged 13 to 64 at least once but that people who have higher risks of contracting HIV should get tested more often.

But who are the people considered at risk? 

HIV.gov said they are the men who had sex with another man, people who had sex whether anal or vaginal with a person who is HIV-positive, and people with multiple sex partners. Those who inject drugs and share needles are vulnerable as well as the sex workers and those who exchange sex for drugs or money. In addition, people who have been diagnosed with, or treated for, another sexually transmitted disease or diagnosed with or treated for hepatitis or tuberculosis (TB) must also get tested. Lastly, people who had sex with anyone mentioned above or with someone whose sexual history they don’t know are also at risk.

Moreover, HIV.gov highly recommends frequent testing for sexually active gay and bisexual men which means getting tested every three to six months. Regular testing is encouraged because the sooner the diagnosis is; the faster it is for the person who tested positive to start with the treatment.

Where to get tested?  

Searching for testing centers near you? If you are in United States simply use Get Tested website from the CDC and it will point you to testing sites and care services in your area. If you are in Australia, click here; or in New Zealand, book a test here; or if you are in Europe, click here. Those from the Philippines can check here or those in Asia in general can check this. Are you in Canada? Then, check this out. Are you in South Africa? Request for an appointment here.

HIV.gov’s theme this year is “Test Your Way. Do It Today” which is in accordance with CDC’s theme: Doing It. CDC wants to convey to everyone that “HIV testing should be a part of everyone’s regular health routine to keep ourselves and our community healthy. He’s doing it. She’s doing it. We’re doing it. YOU should be doing it, too.”

So, will you?

What do you think about getting tested, guys? Does HIV testing stigma continue to exist today in spite of all these campaigns? Do you suffer from self-stigma/internalized stigma and are afraid to get tested because of it? If so, read this information here to know more about self-stigma and how it can damage a person’s health and wellbeing.

Thoughts? Share it with us in the comments section below.

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Speak Out: Does Monogamy Work For You?]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15000 2017-06-26T18:42:07Z 2017-06-26T18:42:07Z menover30photo credit : Men Over 30 – Exclusive A4A discount, save 75% today! Adam4Adam is a dating/hookup site, so we..

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Adam4Adam is a dating/hookup site, so we can agree that all of us here are looking for a connection, at the very least. But is the connection we’re looking for just for right now or for forever?

In a recent photo gallery on The Advocate, writer and blogger Alexander Cheves outlines all the reasons why monogamy is not for him. Some of the reasons come off as pretty compelling, depending on how well your relationship is going on right now.

One of the reasons Cheves mentions is the fact that no one person can satisfy all the sexual needs of their partner. In fact, he points out that expecting it out of your partner can be taxing. He writes, “To expect anyone to satisfy me in every sexual capacity I like would be insane. It would be an enormous amount of pressure on him to perform like a superman, and it would be pressure on me to like what he delivers (or pretend that I do) in order for our relationship to survive.”

Cheves even argues that a non-monogamous relationship might even be a better relationship overall. Explaining to your partner that you want to be in a non-monogamous relationship requires a lot of honesty and communication, traits which he says are needed for any relationship to work.

Of course, Adam4Adam readers are split on this. In a previous post on polyamory, reader RJ echoes the same points Cheves raises, saying “Yes, I could see myself in a polyamorous relationship. I am not a jealous lover, as long as there is clear communication.” While reader Jeff says “Having a REAL relationship these days with one man can be hard enough. Doubling up on that – i’m not so sure.”

With Cheves’ article as a jump off point, we wanted to know what Adam4Adam readers think. Does monogamy work for you? How do you make it work? And if it doesn’t, what kind of relationships are you in? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below!

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Gay Stuff : Anal Rejuvenation Is A Thing]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15016 2017-06-25T14:57:35Z 2017-06-25T14:57:35Z herculesThere’s always advances being made in the field of medicine, and it looks like the latest one involves getting down..

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There’s always advances being made in the field of medicine, and it looks like the latest one involves getting down to the bottom — literally.

It looks like the latest trend among the gay men of North America is anal rejuvenation — a procedure that involves anal dilating and tightening, among other things. The procedure was recently highlighted in an article on Moneyish, where gay surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein talked about making anywhere from $5000 to $25000 on the procedure.

Goldstein says that he started doing the procedure as a way to help his community, as most surgeons weren’t “looking at the anus as cosmetic or sexually functional”. But the help comes at a cost, and it’s not just financial. After shelling out as much as $25000 for the procedure, patients also have a painful two weeks of recovery. There are pain medication, numbing lotions and suppositories involved. You also can’t bottom for at least three months.

However, that doesn’t seem to be stopping the men from undergoing the procedure. Goldstein says he’s opened another clinic in Beverly Hills in addition the one he has in Manhattan. He also says that his business has increased 30 percent.

Positive customer experiences are also pouring in. Among the people Moneyish talked to was 45-year-old Joseph, who said it has immensely improved his sex life: ““I had sex with my husband, and it’s like, ‘Wow – I’m 20 years younger!’ This is not a stretched-out ass. It’s back to how it was when he met me 13 years ago.”

Forty-four year old Rob, who recently bottomed after having the procedure done, shared that the guy he had sex with complimented him with “Wow, you have a beautiful butthole.” Rob added that “This is all I wanted, from the beginning – for this tiny little thing to look beautiful.”

What do you guys think? Is anal rejuvenation something you guys would consider doing? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below!

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Porn: François Sagat in Dream Fucker]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15009 2017-06-24T15:15:54Z 2017-06-24T15:13:39Z francoissagatPhoto credit : MEN – Save 50% This Weekend Only! Hey guys! François Sagat‘s long-awaited comeback is finally here! As..

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Hey guys! François Sagat‘s long-awaited comeback is finally here!

As we all know, François retired from the porn industry in 2012 and now, almost five years later he’s back with a three-part series titled Dream Fucker where he bottoms for Irish stud Paddy O’Brian.

In Dream Fucker, Paddy can be seen drifting off into dreamland and meeting the man of his dreams and sexual fantasies. Not only Paddy got to meet him, he got to fuck him, too. And in a fancy room at that, complete with neon lights and a red sofa.

In the second installment, Sunny Colluci travels with François and they stumbled upon a blue and white spaceship-like structure filled with bright lights where they, ahem, flip-fuck.

The final film was a dream within a dream where Paddy and Sunny met and fucked the man common in their respective sexual fantasies: François. François described their threesome as darker and sweatier and it takes place in a mirrored room with a black leather set.

François described his partners Sunny and Paddy and the Dream Fucker series in general as sensual, hot, and intense.

Dream Fucker was shot in Barcelona. It is François’s first scene with MEN and definitely his first time to work Paddy and Sunny Colluci.

To celebrate François Sagat’s comeback film, MEN is offering a 50% membership fee discount exclusive for Adam4Adam members. The offer however, is valid from June 23, Friday 11:59 pm to June 25, Sunday 11:59 pm (ET) only. Sign up here to watch Dream Fucker’s full scene along with MEN’s daily video updates and other exclusive scenes these past 13 years!

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Fantasy : Gloryholes, a Thing of the Past?]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15002 2017-06-23T14:19:21Z 2017-06-23T14:17:33Z nextdoorstudiosPhoto credit : Next Door Studios – Exclusive A4A Promo – Save 75% Now! Hey, guys! We stumbled upon a..

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Hey, guys! We stumbled upon a Reddit thread wherein one Redditor was asking whether or not gloryholes are “an actual thing.” He asked because apparently none of his friends in real life (and even him) had ever used or seen one.

One of the respondents said that its popularity had already waned over the years with the advent of the Internet all thanks to online dating because now men could meet for casual hookup if they choose to. Not to mention these days there is such a thing as unlawful sexual activity not to mention the police do conduct undercover stings on public restrooms. But anyway, the respondent’s answer made me think if indeed gloryholes aren’t as popular as the days of old. In any case, we did a little digging and we discovered this documentary that revealed the secrets of a gay sauna.

It has the usual hot tub, dry sauna, and showers but then the second floor is dedicated to people who want to engage in anonymous sex. There, you will discover sex swings (looks like a dungeon), rest rooms which of course have a bed complete with condoms and lubes and then there’s an area with rows of toilets which are actually gloryholes. So there you go, gloryholes do exist only they are hidden in the public eye.

With that said, has anyone here ever been into a gay sauna with gloryholes? Has anybody here tried it? How did your experience go? No, you haven’t experienced it yet? Will you ever try it? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Homophobia : Google Chrome Extension #LoveWins Rewrites Homophobic Slurs]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14994 2017-06-22T15:42:56Z 2017-06-22T15:42:56Z #LoveWins1Photo Credits: Connector With the advent of the Internet, many things are now a click away: we can read the..

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With the advent of the Internet, many things are now a click away: we can read the news and do shopping online, even find online jobs, writing someone a letter? No problem, just email them, no need to make a trip to the post office. Looking for a date or for a friend or an acquaintance? We can find them on dating and social networking sites like Adam4Adam and Facebook respectively.

Indeed, the Internet has revolutionized our way of living, but protected by anonymity faceless Internet abusers also surfaced along with it. They can harass, stalk, embarrass, and bully you online; spout hate speech; hurl homophobic slurs.

But Connector has stepped up to the plate and has taken the first steps to helping curb cyberbullying and homophobia online with their new extension for Google Chrome called #LoveWins.

How does #LoveWins work, you ask? If you install this add-on in Google Chrome, the next time you searched for information on the Internet and pejorative words like faggot and dyke pop up, #LoveWins will replace it with positive words and highlight it with Pride colors.

Take a look at Connector’s video about #LoveWins below.

 

#LoveWins was released to celebrate Pride Month 2017 and is free for use. If you want to add it to your Google Chrome, simply click here.

What do you think about this new tool, guys? Share with us your thoughts and opinions in the comments section below.

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Dave http://Adam4Adam.com%20 <![CDATA[Sex Toys : Get A Free Butt Plug And Cuffs!]]> https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14987 2017-06-22T00:42:52Z 2017-06-22T00:37:42Z buttplugYou’ve probably already been to a number of Pride celebrations over the past few weeks, but surely you won’t be..

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You’ve probably already been to a number of Pride celebrations over the past few weeks, but surely you won’t be begrudged from indulging in a little private celebration of your own. If you reach for the sex toys whenever you’re in a celebratory mood, then have we got deals for you.

Shop at the Adam4Adam Store until July 10 and you can get either an aluminum butt plug or metallic neoprene cuffs for free. All you need to do is follow the instructions below.

You can get the aluminum butt plug, which is 5.25 inches in length and comes with a jeweled base, by adding it to your shopping cart, buying another product worth $79 or more, and then entering the coupon A4ALUCENT2017 at the checkout.

For the neoprene cuffs, with its embossed silver exterior and comfortable neoprene interior, just buy anything worth $19 after adding it your shopping cart and then enter the coupon A4APLATINUM2017 at checkout.

The store has also cut down prices on items like vibrating dildos, enema devices, and anal intruder cock rings.

If any of these items interest you, head on over to the Adam4Adam Store now and get to shopping!

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