Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog World's best free gay dating and hookup site Wed, 28 Sep 2016 13:37:55 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/cropped-logo-150x150.png Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog 32 32 News : Donald Trump Has 20% Of LGBT Vote https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/news-donald-trump-20-lgbt-vote/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/news-donald-trump-20-lgbt-vote/#comments Wed, 28 Sep 2016 13:34:18 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13256 trump1When you think of voting blocs that will go out to the polls to support Donald Trump come election day,..

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When you think of voting blocs that will go out to the polls to support Donald Trump come election day, the LGBT community isn’t exactly the first one that comes to mind.

After all, Donald Trump is running on a Republican platform that defines marriage as “between one man and one woman”. His running mate, Mike Pence, signed into law Indiana’s controversial Religious Freedom Law and personally believes in the effectiveness of conversion therapy. And recently, the Trump campaign’s “Family First” benefits plan came under fire for not including gay men or single-parent men.

Despite all of that, it still looks like Trump still has some pull in the LGBT community. An NBC News poll showed that while Hillary Clinton had 72 percent support among LGBT voters, a surprising 20 percent would still vote for Trump.

Both candidates fared worse than the candidates in the previous presidential election. President Barack Obama had 76 percent of the LGBT vote according to NBC’s exit polls, while Mitt Romney had 24 percent. But what’s changed since then has been the climate around LGBT issues and concerns. Same-sex marriage was legalized under the Democratic administration of President Barack Obama, and is widely regarded as a huge victory for LGBT rights.

That could still change after the first presidential debate held last night between Clinton and Trump. While LGBT rights did not come up during the debate, various outlets have given the first round of the first of three debates to the Democratic candidate. CNN, Public Policy Polling, and even with Republican pollster Frank Luntz’ focus group.

What do you guys think? Has the debate changed what you think about Trump or Clinton? Which candidate will get your vote at the polling precinct come November? Share your thoughts and comments below and remember to stay polite with other users that have different opinions!

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Movie : James Franco in Porn Drama “King Cobra” https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/movie-james-franco-porn-drama-king-cobra/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/movie-james-franco-porn-drama-king-cobra/#comments Tue, 27 Sep 2016 13:44:43 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13230 king-cobraFans of the upcoming crime drama film King Cobra, the long wait is over! Well, almost. The movie is set..

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Fans of the upcoming crime drama film King Cobra, the long wait is over! Well, almost. The movie is set to hit the movie theaters next month, October 21, 2016 and the first official trailer has been released yesterday. Take a look below.

King Cobra is based on the story of Brent Corrigan—Sean Paul Lockhart in real life—his meteoric rise to stardom in the porn industry and how two producers who would stop at nothing had aspired to sign Brent up on their own studio. Even at the cost of someone else’s life.

The movie runs for 91 minutes and it stars James Franco as Joe and Keegan Allen as Harlow while Christian Slater plays Stephen (Bryan Kocis’ character). Garrett Clayton on the other hand, plays the role of Brent Corrigan/Sean Paul Lockhart. They are joined by Alicia Silverstone and Molly Ringwald in this Justin Kelly film.

King Cobra had been well-received in the film festival circuit earlier this year. It was screened in Tribeca Film Festival in New York last April 16 and in Outfest Los Angeles LGBT Film Festival last July 16.

It has been reported that Brent was approached to take part in King Cobra but that he had declined the offer. He took to twitter to answer his fans’ questions regarding this matter and he said, “I have no interest in playing myself in any movie. I’m myself everyday :-)”

Further, he elaborated, “I declined all offers/requests to be a part of their movie. You’ll see why when you see the film.”

When asked about how Brent feels regarding Garrett Clayton playing his character, he replied, “I was 17-21 in the years the screenplay spans. I looked much younger. He doesn’t embody Brian’s preference for not legal boys.”

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Photography : French Firefighters on Fire! https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/photography-french-firefighters-fire/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/photography-french-firefighters-fire/#comments Mon, 26 Sep 2016 14:43:44 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13224 le-calendrier-des-pompiers-2017-teaser-1Photo Credits: Fred Goudon Who knew French firefighters are scorching hot! Renowned French professional photographer Fred Goudon released his 2017..

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Photo Credits: Fred Goudon

Who knew French firefighters are scorching hot!

Renowned French professional photographer Fred Goudon released his 2017 calendar titled Le Calendrier des Pompiers featuring a select few of France’s firefighters. Thanks to Fred Goudon, I’d never look at a calendar the same way again. See few pictures below:

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Hot, hot, hot! Don’t you think? If you want to grab a copy, you can buy one over at Amazon by clicking here or you can order directly from this link. They deliver copies both in France and abroad and the calendar is also said to be available in bookstores. Not only will you have a copy of a steamy calendar featuring gorgeous firefighters, you are also participating in a good cause as proceeds of Le Calendrier des Pompiers 2017 will go to Firefighters Without Borders.

Can’t get enough of the photoshoot? Check out their Instagram here and learn more about the organization and the difference they make for the betterment of this world through their awesome pictures. You can also watch the teaser below:

Fred Goudon is best known for his works on Dieux du Stade, title for the world renown books, calendars, and DVDs featuring the photos of Stade Français members in their naked glory. Okay so some of the men were sporting either a piece of cloth or a rugby ball to strategically cover their crotch but it didn’t matter, they’re exquisite!

Stade Français by the way, is a French rugby team but in recent years it is said that members from other rugby team and athletes from various other sports have been invited to do the Dieux du Stade calendar.

For more naked men, calendars I mean (insert wicked grin here. Because we can never have too many, can we?), you may check out Goudon’s blog here where he features his other works.

Have a good day!

 

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News : DC To Launch Comic Book To Benefit Orlando Victims https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/news-dc-launch-comic-book-benefit-orlando-victims/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/news-dc-launch-comic-book-benefit-orlando-victims/#comments Sat, 24 Sep 2016 17:33:45 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13221 21comic-orlando-superjumboComic book artists have banded together to give the victims of the June 12 Orlando shooting victims a gift during..

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Comic book artists have banded together to give the victims of the June 12 Orlando shooting victims a gift during the Christmas holidays – a 144-page comic book going on sale on December. The proceeds will go to Equality Florida’s fund for the victims of the Pulse nightclub shooting.

The comic book, entitled “Love Is Love”, will sell for $9.99 and features work from creators like Phil Jimenez of Superwoman, Oliver Coipel of Thor and X-Men. Comedian Patton Oswalt and screenwriter Damon Lindelof will also contribute to the collection.

The whole effort was organized by openly gay artist Marc Andreyko, who told The New York Times that events like Orlando shouldn’t be compartmentalized. They should hurt and we should want to change for the better.

Andreyko also revealed that he had required only one page submissions so as to ensure that the creators he contacted would be able to commit to the project. He was also the one pairing up the writers and artists.

“I was e-Harmony-ing people,” he said. “Mixing and matching and seeing who felt right.”

While DC Comics may be best known for immortalizing the superhero trinity of Superman, Batman, and Wonder Woman in pop culture consciousness, but the publisher is also the home of Midnighter, a gay superhero created in 1998 and named by Comics Alliance as one of the “50 Sexiest Male Characters In Comics”.

Aside from Midnighter, other gay characters in the DC universe include Midnighter’s husband, Apollo; Green Lantern Alan Scott, and Watchmen’s Nelson Gardner. Other prominent LGBT characters include Batgirl, Catwoman, Harley Quinn, and Poison Ivy.

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Health : Wentworth Miller For National Suicide Prevention https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/health-wentworth-miller-national-suicide-prevention/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/health-wentworth-miller-national-suicide-prevention/#comments Fri, 23 Sep 2016 16:55:18 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13217 wentworth-millerPhoto Credits: Wentworth Miller’s Facebook How do you know a person is suffering from depression? Actor Wentworth Miller teamed up..

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Photo Credits: Wentworth Miller’s Facebook

How do you know a person is suffering from depression?

Actor Wentworth Miller teamed up with The Mighty and created a powerful video for Suicide Prevention Week titled A Day in the Life with Depression that illustrates how it is to live with depression.

Several people in the video appeared asking themselves questions such as: Is this worth it? What’s the point? I’ve failed everyone. I’m so tired. I don’t know what to do. Will I ever be happy? Why can’t you accomplish even simple tasks?

The persistent questions keep on circling round a person’s head, relentless and, seemingly without any form of escape s/he gets tired one day and conclude: I’m so tired. Why bother?

These dangerous thoughts could lead to a dangerous conclusion which is why an understanding on mental illness and how we can help those struggling with depression is important hence the birth of National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month.

Much effort has already been exerted into addressing mental health issues with movements such as Mental Health Awareness Week and National Suicide Prevention Week. However, statistics show there is still much to be done.

In the video shown below, Miller stated that every year depression affects an estimated 15 million people in the United States and 350 million people worldwide.

But depression and suicide affects people from all backgrounds and all ages. The youth, too, especially the LGB youth according to the recent Youth Risk Behavior Study (YRBS) conducted among 9th to 12th graders by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Their results revealed that the rate of suicide attempts is four times greater for LGB youth compared to that of straight youth.

The results of the study further revealed that 43% of the LGB survey participants seriously considered suicide, 38% even formed a suicide plan, and roughly 30% attempted suicide. You can read their full report here.

 

What we can do

Looking at the numbers presented it can be overwhelming. However, we can actually help in our own small way and together we just might be able to move a little closer into understanding mental illness if not put a huge dent to the stigma surrounding mental health crisis.

How?

  1. Through education.

By arming ourselves with information through reading, watching, and attending seminars about mental health, learn more about how to recognize the warning signs of suicide, and know who are at risk. Because education is key to understanding, and it is only through understanding that we can address the issue and overturn the situation. Learn how to reach out and be there for them and in effect make a difference on the life of a person suffering from depression.

The Trevor Project for one, offers CARE Trainings for LGBTQ youth. Read more about it here. The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR. Today, it is recognized as “the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages 13-24.”

If you are in Canada, check out http://suicideprevention.ca/ for educational materials and resources. You can also find local crisis centres through this link: http://suicideprevention.ca/need-help/

  1. Always remember that we can ask for help.

Wentworth Miller—who made no secret of his own shares of struggles with depression and suicide—urged the public to ask for help, suggesting to find a support group in their area by visiting the Anxiety and Depression Association of America at https://www.adaa.org/. He also added that if you or someone you know is in crisis, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1800-273-TALK or text START to 741-741.

Miller concluded the aforementioned video with an appeal to the viewers. “Don’t be afraid to take the first step. Someone cares, and they are waiting to hear from you.”

This sentiment was echoed by Michelle Obama, the First Lady of the United States who said in an interview over at Prevention’s October 2016 issue that “asking for help is always a sign of strength.”

She explained further that “in order to change the culture’s negative perception around mental illness, parents need to stress the importance of psychological wellbeing to their children.”

“We need to teach our kids that mental illnesses are just like physical illnesses and deserve the same kind of care and compassion,” Michelle concluded.

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Fantasy : Foot Fetish https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/fantasy-foot-fetish/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/fantasy-foot-fetish/#comments Thu, 22 Sep 2016 17:29:39 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13214 tumblr_o43vrq4n4l1sigxz0o1_500Do you have a secret fantasy or fetish? The word ‘fetish’ is defined as “a form of sexual desire in..

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Do you have a secret fantasy or fetish? The word ‘fetish’ is defined as “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked, to an abnormal degree, to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” [source: Oxford Dictionaries]. Some people have a fetish for leather, some for hair, and for others, a fetish for feet.

To most people, well, feet are just feet—smelly, stinky, callous-y; but for some people, it could be the sexiest part of the body they can imagine—their biggest “turn-on.”

But why are certain people attracted to feet?

Why some people have a fetish for feet

Well, nobody really knows. Some suggest that it could simply be because the feet lead to the legs, and legs lead to the genitals. But whatever the reason, the feet, completed with its toes, nails, and sometimes even the shoes, still holds the number one spot in the ranking of most common fetishes. (It beats everything else!—in intensity and commonality.)

As do all forms of fetishes, having a “foot fetish” typically varies in different degrees, ranging from mild to wild. Some can enjoy just looking at a pair of beautiful-looking feet, but some can’t get enough of it—licking it, sucking it—to their heart’s content.

There are also those people who would madly enjoy a good “foot-job” but wouldn’t exactly prefer doing it to others.

How’s your fantasy foot fetish?

Hardwired versus Haywire – When fetishes get out of hand

Fantasy fetishes (though sometimes seen as taboo) are actually normal and common for many people. It is often a topic of very intimate conversations, often triggered by the question: So what turns you on?

In fact, anything can be a fetish for anyone. It can be an inanimate object (a medium—silk, fur—or something that holds form—stockings, panties)—or an animate entity or part of the body (for instance hands, shoulders, etc., or in this case, feet).

(Read more about the different types of fetishes here: Speak Out : What Are Your Fetishes?)

For the most part, fetishes don’t inherently hold any sensual characteristics whatsoever, but they essentially help trigger one’s arousal, setting the mood for sex by instantly turning you on.

But there are also the extreme, insane cases of uncontrolled fetishism like this one:

“a 35-year-old man…awaiting sentencing after confessing that his foot fetish led him to break into the homes of sleeping children so he could touch their feet.” [source: ABC News]

Get a grip of your fetish!

Ideally, a fetish is, and should, be pretty harmless. In sexual experiences, it ought to play a supporting role, not the lead part.

You can quite easily tell whether your fetish has already gone way out of control. For instance, if you find that you can no longer have a satisfying sex without it, then it obviously is already a problem. It could damage your relationship and sometimes, for some people, even result in aggressive behavior.

Basically, if your fetish (foot or what not) starts interfering with your life—your relationship, your work, your character—you must seek immediate help from a certified professional.

If a gay guy dumps his partner for someone else just because his second toe is a bit longer for his liking?—well, that certainly calls for some therapy!

Fetishes should help enhance one’s sexual experience, not ruin real intimacy.

On the other hand, if you find that you have quite a healthy sense of your (foot) fetish, just go with it—Whatever works for both you and your partner.

Everybody has got their “thing” anyways so explore and enjoy yours.

 

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Fantasy : Sex at The Office? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/fantasy-sex-office/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/fantasy-sex-office/#comments Wed, 21 Sep 2016 19:47:49 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13176 office sexPhoto : Grab Ass There’s something about the corporate environment that just makes it ripe for some illicit imaginings. Is..

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Photo : Grab Ass

There’s something about the corporate environment that just makes it ripe for some illicit imaginings. Is it the sight of good-looking guys in suits that make you want to just strip it off of them and loosen their ties a little bit? Is it the thrill of bending your boss over and showing him exactly who calls the shots?

Whatever the reasons or the variations, it’s clear that office sex is a common enough fantasy for a lot of people. In fact, a 2014 study by the University of Quebec revealed that more than 80% of the men participating in the test fantasized about having sex in an unusual place such as the office. It’s so common that now, there’s even a new porn site that caters exclusively to this particular predilection – Grab Ass.

On the Grab Ass homepage, it bills itself as the source to see “the hottest studs wearing suits getting it on and fucking around the office”, and the previews on the site certainly seem to cover every conceivable office hanky-panky scenario.

Ever thought about fucking by the water cooler? How about giving a hand job while sipping your first coffee for the work day? Have you always wondered what you would have done if HR had asked you that this job would be yours if you got on your knees and sucked him off? Grab Ass probably has a video of that particular fantasy somewhere.

But moving away from fantasy, have any of you Adam4Adam regulars actually had sex in the office? Whom did you do it with? What so thrilling and titillating about it? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below.

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STDs : Drug-Resistant Gonorrhea, How to Fight It Off https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/stds-drug-resistant-gonorrhea-fight-off/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2016/09/stds-drug-resistant-gonorrhea-fight-off/#comments Tue, 20 Sep 2016 15:44:14 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=13185 gonorrheaImagine a world where gonorrhea treatment is no longer effective.  Doctors in the UK recently reported a case of drug-resistant..

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Imagine a world where gonorrhea treatment is no longer effective.  Doctors in the UK recently reported a case of drug-resistant gonorrhea that didn’t respond to what’s called “dual therapy” – giving the patient the prescribed doses of azithromycin and ceftriaxone, two of the medications most commonly used in the US and recommended by the CDC. The patient eventually was cured, but only after giving him a much higher dose, which also has its own implications on the patient.

 

The good news is that CDC monitors how fast gonorrhea is becoming resistant, and we have not yet seen any ”super bugs” that can’t be treated here the US.  But it is highly likely that drug-resistant gonorrhea is in our future.

 

More than 350,000 people are diagnosed with gonorrhea in the US each year. That’s just what’s reported: the CDC estimates that more than 800,000 new infections may actually occur each year. The rate of infections among gay men increased 20% between 2009 and 2013. The rate of resistance is also increasing: the levels of resistance of gonorrhea to azithromycin increased more than 300% between 2013 and 2014. It is evolving at a faster rate than drug companies are finding new drugs to treat it. As recently as 2006, CDC had five recommended treatment options. In the US, we now are down to one.

 

We are not in crisis mode, so don’t hit the panic button yet. Still, we should be in “prepare” mode, which could mean better use of prevention tools. Gonorrhea resistance to new drugs builds and grows. However, there aren’t many alternative drugs in the pipeline right now for gonorrhea. This will take some time, but in the meanwhile, it’s best to get tested every three months so you can get treated if you need it.

 

Important, little-known fact about testing: it is not enough to pee in a cup.  Gonorrhea can also infect your throat and your rectum.  In fact, most gonorrhea in gay men is missed if you just do urine testing.  It’s possible to have your urine test show no evidence of being infected with gonorrhea, even though you can still have an infection in your throat or rectum. Ask your doctor about getting your throat and rectum swabbed for gonorrhea and chlamydia testing.  Most people have no symptoms so the only way to know is to get tested.

 

If you don’t want to talk to your primary care doctor about your sex life, there are other places to get tested.  There are plenty of clinics that can test and treat you in a confidential and competent way. The CDC has a directory that is searchable by zip code at https://gettested.cdc.gov/.

 

For more information about drug-resistant gonorrhea, go to: http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/arg/.

 

We’d like to hear from you: what has made it easy to ask your doctor about your sexual health needs?

Stephen Hicks

National Coalition of STD Directors

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