Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog World's best free gay dating and hookup site Mon, 25 Sep 2017 17:59:45 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/cropped-logo-150x150.png Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog 32 32 Gay Stuff : Male Celebrities with Sexy Voices  https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/gay-stuff-male-celebrities-sexy-voices/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/gay-stuff-male-celebrities-sexy-voices/#comments Mon, 25 Sep 2017 17:59:45 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15596 Photo Credits: Gage Skidmore / CC BY-SA 3.0 I have a weakness for guys with a sexy voice. And while..]]>

Photo Credits: Gage Skidmore / CC BY-SA 3.0

I have a weakness for guys with a sexy voice. And while our opinions may differ as to who has the sexiest voice we’ve ever heard, I think we can all agree there’s something about an attractive voice that we find irresistible. On top of that, hearing them speak makes us go all weak at the knees. They don’t have to speak sweet nothings in our ear, just hearing the sound of their voice from across the room (and okay, even on television in the case of our favorite actors) is enough.

Not only that, these studies conducted by Collins & Missing, 2003; Saxton, Caryl, & Roberts, 2006 as cited by Psychology Today, say that people with “appealing voices” are perceived to “have more attractive faces.” In addition, they are seen to have more pleasing personalities, too (Zuckerman, Miyake, & Hodgins, 1991). The downside however, at least according to the study conducted by Gallup & Frederick (2010), is that they are “more likely to be sexually unfaithful,” and that they “tend to have sex earlier and to have more sex partners overall.” They concluded that people with attractive voices “make better short-term rather than long-term partners.”

Based on your own experience, would you say you agree to these studies?

Having said that, the celebrities who I think have sexy voices are Christ Hemsworth, the late Alan Rickman, Paul Bettany, Benedict Cumberbatch, and Noriaki Sugiyama. I’m fairly confident you all know the first four, the last one—Noriaki Sugiyama, a Japanese voice actor (seiyuu)—is very popular among anime fans (particularly in Naruto where he is the seiyuu for Sasuke Uchiha) and among video game players.

What about you, guys? Do you have a list of male actors who you think have beautiful and sexy speaking voices? Who do you find more attractive: a guy with a pretty or handsome face or a guy with a beautiful or sexy voice? On another note, have you ever dated someone with a sexy voice? How did your dirty talks go? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Watch This: A Red Hot Calendar for 2018! https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/watch-red-hot-calendar-2018/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/watch-red-hot-calendar-2018/#comments Sun, 24 Sep 2017 13:11:19 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15591 Photo Credits: Red Hot Cocks Kickstarter For redhead lovers out there, there’s a 2018 calendar in the making and it’s..]]>

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For redhead lovers out there, there’s a 2018 calendar in the making and it’s called “Red Hot Cocks” in honor of its 12 redhead models. From the title itself, it is safe to assume the models are posing full-frontal—something that the organizers confirmed in their Kickstarter campaign page saying, “12 full frontal, totally nude ginger nuts out and proud for 2018.” Check out their campaign video below.

The 2018 calendar project—led by Red Hot photographer Thomas Knights, artist Andrew Salgado, and art director Elliott James Frieze—aims to raise funds for the Movember Foundation’s Testicular Cancer Awareness. If you like what you’ve seen so far, you might want to check out their page here. The guys are also the ones behind the successful Red Hot calendar series and are also calling for red hot males out there; interested parties may message them on Facebook but they must be available in London for the shoot.

A few years back, we talked about this video which showed us how to properly do testicle check. If you missed that one or if you’ve forgotten how to do the self-check, then you may want to revisit said video here.  Although it is considered a rare cancer with 8,850 new cases in the US this 2017, according to Mayo clinic testicular cancer is “the most common cancer in American males between the ages 15 and 35. On the other hand, the age range of those affected in the UK is 15 to 49 with 2,200 new diagnoses each year.

Read more about testicular cancer here.

The Red Hot Cocks 2018 Calendar will be launched this October 25, 2017 at L’Escargot, Soho.

Can’t get enough of the guys? You may check them out here and don’t forget to follow A4A’s official account here and mine here while you are at it. Happy viewing!

Thoughts? Share it with us in the comments section below.

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Mental Health: Gay Athlete Honors Friend Who Committed Suicide https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/mental-health-gay-athlete-honors-friend-committed-suicide/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/mental-health-gay-athlete-honors-friend-committed-suicide/#comments Sat, 23 Sep 2017 12:53:28 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15586 Photo Credits: Josh Velasquez Instagram September is the National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, guys! And this young man named Josh..]]>

Photo Credits: Josh Velasquez Instagram

September is the National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, guys! And this young man named Josh Velasquez is doing something in his own way to honor his best friend’s memory and shed light on the issue all while raising money for American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP).

In his campaign page in AFSP, Velasquez related how he lost his best friend, Aaron, to suicide in 2011 and how, last year, he himself suffered from “extreme depression and suicidal thoughts.” Velasquez says he was lucky to have had the support of his close friends, family, and AFSP and credits them for “pulling him out of the dark hole he had dug for himself.”

Today, Josh Velasquez—a 21-year-old senior student in neuroscience and cognitive behavior at the University of Arizona—hopes to pay it forward by running a half-marathon in Long Beach, CA this coming October 8. Said marathon’s purpose is to raise money for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention and Velasquez has a page setup for this which you may check here. Velasquez says he is “running the Long Beach half-marathon in support of those taken too soon by depression and suicide.” He added that there are “nearly 45,000 lives lost to suicide every year.” He concluded his call for support by urging everyone who has been affected by suicide in some way to consider donating to the cause.

In a fact sheet posted by AAS, it cited a study that says “gay men were 6 times more likely than the heterosexual males to attempt suicide and the lesbians were 2 times more likely than heterosexual females to attempt.” Contributing factors mentioned included psychiatric disorders, school (lack of support), coming out at an early age, religion, harassment to name a few.

If you, or anyone you know is in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or contact the Crisis Text Line by texting TALK to 741741. You may also click here for options. On the other hand, A4A members and readers outside of United States may click this.

Velasquez came out April this year with best friend and fellow athlete and swimmer Axel Reed in an interview with Outsports. To know more about Josh Velasquez’s campaign, click here.

Thoughts? Share it with us in the comments section below.

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Sex Toys: Five Sex Toys For Your Fetish Needs https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/sex-toys-five-sex-toys-fetish-needs/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/sex-toys-five-sex-toys-fetish-needs/#comments Fri, 22 Sep 2017 13:20:17 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15579 As a sexual minority, we’re often the ones more comfortable taking part in sexual practices the mainstream may frown upon...]]>

As a sexual minority, we’re often the ones more comfortable taking part in sexual practices the mainstream may frown upon. Of course, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, as long as it happens between two consenting adults.

One particular sexual practice that the community has embraced fully is S&M. We even celebrate it annually with the Folsom Street Fair. Of course, you don’t need to restrict your S&M activities to just one weekend in September. With the Adam4Adam Store, you’ve got a whole range of fetish toys with which to explore your less vanilla side.

1. Strict Leather Rainbow Flogger

Of course, one of the basic implements you’re going to need in an S&M lifestyle is the flogger. Try your hand at the Strict Leather Rainbow Flogger, made out of high quality leather and about 36 tails. It’s got a wrist strap on its handle so you can have a firm grip when whipping. Plus, its colorful tails stop this from becoming a totally monochromatic affair. It’s selling at the store at $84.99, less 25% from its usual $112.99 selling price.

2. Japanese Clover Clamps

Pressure and restriction are some of the things that S&M toys deal with, and these Japanes Clover Clamps are perfect for exactly those things. The clamps are joined together by a silver chain, and are designed to get tighter and tighter as you pull on them. Be imaginative and don’t just use it on the nipples! It usually sells at $20, but the store currently has it at 10% off, which means you can buy it for $17.95.

3. CB6000 Male Chastity Device

If you want your sub to know that his cock is only yours, then there’s nothing like the CB6000 Male Chastity Device to drive this point home. It’s made out of durable and lightweight polycarbonate, so you won’t be unnecessarily harming your sub. The five plastic locks it comes with are also tamper-proof, so your sub won’t cheat his way out of it. Best of all, you can get it at $149, 22% off from its usual $189.95 selling price.

4. Pressure Point Beaded Glans Ring

There’s an oft-repeated saying that big things come in small packages, and that’s certainly true for the Pressure Point Beaded Glans Ring. If you want to reward your sub with some pleasurable sensations,  have him put on this ring. The two steel balls constantly stimulate the underside of his glans, which is the most sensitive part of the cock. You can even use it on yourself and have our sub blow you while you’re wearing it. You can buy it at the store for only $19.95, 20% off from its $25 selling price.

5. Electro Shank Electro Shock Blade with Handle

More advanced S&M practitioners look beyond just clamps and floggers. They can use electricity to great effect, and this Electro Shank Electro Shock Blade with Handle is something they’d probably enjoy. This toy delivers an intense shock on whomever you use it on, and will surely train him to be more obedient. Buy it at the store for only $24.95, 29% off from its usual $34.95 price tag.

Any blog readers who’ve had a go at any of these toys? What do you think? Care to share some of your favorite S&M toys? Do it in the comments section below!

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Fantasy : Clown Fetish https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/fantasy-clown-fetish/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/fantasy-clown-fetish/#comments Thu, 21 Sep 2017 15:58:33 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15573 Over the past couple of weeks, clowns made a comeback in American pop consciousness as “It”, an adaptation of the..]]>

Over the past couple of weeks, clowns made a comeback in American pop consciousness as “It”, an adaptation of the Stephen King novel, ruled the box office. Bill Skarsgård’s portrayal of Pennywise the Dancing Clown has been especially lauded. With Skarsgård being younger and frankly sexier than the Tim Curry version, it’s not surprising that a horny fandom has sprung around it.

Head on over to the Pennywise Confessions Tumblr and you’ll find quite the number of people revealing some less than pure thoughts about the terrifying character. There’s the one guy who’s “jacked off to low res gifs of Pennywise twisting out of the refrigerator like 5 or more times:. There’s another person who wants “to call Pennywise Daddy while he chokes me with his big hands”. And there’s the one that just wants Pennywise’s claws up his ass.

Of course, this clown fetish didn’t start with Bill Skarsgård and his interpretation of Pennywise. As early as 2005, clown porn was referenced in shows like “Family Guy”. A cursory look at several tube sites show that there’s quite a bit of clown porn being made. There’s also Ouchy the Clown, a clown dom who bills himself as the “premier provider of adult clown services” and has made appearances at San Francisco’s Folsom Street Fair.

Aside from that, there are also a number of online forums where people share talk about this particular fetish. People have even come up with a name for sexual arousal from clowns — coulrophilia.

Adam4Adam blog readers are a diverse bunch, even when it comes to their sexual proclivities, so here’s the question: Do you have coulrophilia? When did it start for you? What is it about clowns that you find attractive? Any stories that you want to share? Feel free to do so in the comments section below!

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Fantasy: One Night with a Fratman https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/fantasy-one-night-fratman/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/fantasy-one-night-fratman/#comments Wed, 20 Sep 2017 13:39:35 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15569 Photo Credits: Fraternity X One night with a fratman, who here hasn’t fantasized about it? After all, fratmen’s got allure..]]>

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One night with a fratman, who here hasn’t fantasized about it? After all, fratmen’s got allure of their own. Do you agree?

I blame my fantasies to their fraternity houses. I mean, guys living together—cleaning, cooking, eating, doing their schoolwork and playing video games and partying all night together—their living arrangements do make a good fodder for my overactive imagination. One wonders if there is also a lot of hot man-on-man action going inside their shower rooms. And does their pledging and initiation include blindfolding the pledges while they had their fun with them? Does it include group sex? Maybe!

What are the chances that these instances will actually happen in real life? I know, I know, there’s the porn for that and this is why it’s called fantasy.

When I was in college I veered away from dating fratmen on purpose because in my university, frat wars run rampant and I didn’t want to get caught up in drama and in trouble. I am however, friends with some fratmen and while I didn’t care much for their fraternities’ seemingly endless drinking parties per se, they were sweet guys.

What about you, have you ever had a fratman for a boyfriend or a fuck buddy? How was it, being in a relationship and being in bed with them?

Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Sex Toys: Your Gifts for September https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/sex-toys-gifts-september/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/sex-toys-gifts-september/#respond Tue, 19 Sep 2017 16:48:03 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15561 Photo Credits: Adam4Adam Store Let’s greet autumn with these two awesome sex toys straight from Adam4Adam’s Sex Shop—one of the..]]>

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Let’s greet autumn with these two awesome sex toys straight from Adam4Adam’s Sex Shop—one of the toys of your choice can be yours for free when you place an order.

Get this Prostate Plug with Cock Ring and experience an earth shattering orgasm thanks to the pleasure that only this sex toy can bring! Its snug cock ring lets you and your partner enjoy the biggest, hardest, longest-lasting erection you’ll ever have while its contoured Prostate Plug massages the wearer’s p-spot providing more stimulation as the optional vibrating stimulator pleasures the perineum.

Spend $29 or more worth of any other products in the store and this Prostate Plug with Cock Ring is yours; just enter the coupon code A4APPLUGC2017 upon checkout. Get it here or click on the image below and simply follow the instructions displayed on the page.

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Lose yourself in pleasure with our Velvet Throat Super Stroker, thanks to the feeling of a hot wet mouth slurping on your cock. For best experience, soak it in warm water for a minute or so and squeeze in some water-based lubes which you can get here.

Spend $15 or more worth of anything else in the store and this Velvet Throat Super Stroker is yours; just enter the coupon code A4AVELVET2017 upon checkout. Get it here or click on the image below and simply follow the instructions shown on the page.

Offer for both sex toys are good until October 9 only or until stocks last. Hurry and head over to Adam4Adam Store and get what you need! Also, please tell us which toys you bought and how it worked out for you in the comments section below.

Have fun!

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Movie : Tom of Finland https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/movie-tom-finland/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/09/movie-tom-finland/#comments Mon, 18 Sep 2017 14:57:27 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=15556 Photo Credits: Screengrab from kinolorber YouTube Hey, guys! There’s a new movie coming our way this autumn titled Tom of..]]>

Photo Credits: Screengrab from kinolorber YouTube

Hey, guys! There’s a new movie coming our way this autumn titled Tom of Finland by Dome Karukoski. It’s a biopic based on the life of the late Finnish artist named Touko Laaksonen (1920–1991) who at the time, was only known to the public by his pseudonym Tom of Finland.

The movie tells the beginnings of Touko (played by Pekka Strang), his life in the Finnish Army when he was conscripted to serve during the World War II, and his subsequent life where we started to meet challenges and struggles as a budding artist. Thankfully, he managed to surmount them all and today, Touko Laaksonen is best remembered for his homoerotic fetish art of muscular men that served as the catalyst for his notable influence on the “late twentieth century gay culture.” Cultural historian Joseph W. Slade called him the “most influential creator of gay pornographic images.”

Did you know that his iconic art had inspired XR Brands to release a whole line of pleasure tools such as lubricants, restraints, insertables, cock & ball gear, and Tom’s cock? Yep, it did! And according to XR Brands, part of the proceeds “benefits the Tom of Finland Foundation, dedicated to protecting, preserving, and promoting erotic art.”

Tom of Finland is coming this October 13 in New York and on October 20 in San Francisco and Los Angeles. It premiered on January 27 at the Göteborg Film Festival. This awesome film serves as Finland’s official entry for the Best Foreign Language Film at the upcoming 90th Academy Awards.

If you want to know more about the life and works of Tom of Finland, click here. You may also view some of his artworks here. Check out the entire Tom of Finland’s Pleasure Tools collection here.

Thoughts? Share it with us in the comments section below.

Happy viewing!

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