Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog World's best free gay dating and hookup site Sat, 16 Jun 2018 14:56:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/cropped-logo-150x150.png Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog 32 32 Watch This: Christina Aguilera Busks in NYC Subway https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-christina-aguilera-busks-in-nyc-subway/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-christina-aguilera-busks-in-nyc-subway/#respond Sat, 16 Jun 2018 14:55:17 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16975 (Photo Credits: Screengrab from The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon YouTube) Hey guys! Christina Aguilera was spotted busking in a..]]>

(Photo Credits: Screengrab from The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon YouTube)

Hey guys! Christina Aguilera was spotted busking in a New York City subway station with Jimmy Fallon. They were both wearing a disguise; the duo donned wigs and hats and they even wore matching dark glasses!

However, while some NYC commuters were clearly and pleasantly surprised when Fallon introduced Aguilera, there were several fans who commented on the video posted online that the disguise was useless. Some fans said would recognize Aguilera’s voice anytime anywhere just by hearing her sing the very first few notes. They say it’s because she’s got a distinctive voice and that nobody in this world has her kind of “big voice.” True that. Well, whatever the case is—whether the disguise worked or it didn’t—it is evident just by looking at the audience’s smiling faces that they enjoyed Christina Aguilera and Jimmy Fallon’s performance. Watch them below as they nailed Aretha Franklin’s Think (1968). They later performed Aguilera’s very own song titled Fighter (2002).

Anyway, Aguilera has a new album out yesterday called Liberation. Rolling Stone called Liberation “excellent, and raw and moving.” They said Xtina is “at her peak,” and that she is “hands down, one of the greatest vocalists of her generation.”

Do you agree? Are you a Christina Aguilera fan? Here are some of my favorite Christina Aguilera songs: Beautiful (2002), Lady Marmalade (2001), The Voice Within (2002), Reflection (1998), Nobody Wants to be Lonely (2001), and Hurt (2006) to name a few. What about you, guys? Share with us your thoughts and your favorite Christina Aguilera songs in the comments section below.

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Survey: What is Better Than Sex? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/survey-what-is-better-than-sex/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/survey-what-is-better-than-sex/#comments Fri, 15 Jun 2018 15:57:05 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16970 (Photo Credits: MEN – Save 50% Today) We have a quick question for you, guys. What, for you, is possibly..]]>

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We have a quick question for you, guys. What, for you, is possibly better or more addictive than sex? Some of us might say it is ice cream, chocolates, or kisses; but for others it is their smartphones?

Well, it wasn’t exactly phrased that way but it does seem like it. According to a study titled The Attachment Problem: Cellphone Use in America which was conducted by SureCall, 10% of their respondents admitted to checking their mobile phones while in the middle of having sex.

Perhaps the sex was really bad that they felt checking their smartphones is far more worthy of their time? Either that or they just really have a huge emotional attachment to their smartphones but whatever the case is, you can read the rest of the study which was conducted online here. SureCall is a company that specializes in the “design and manufacture of cell phone signal boosters, amplifiers, and accessories” by the way and they surveyed a total of 1,137 people aged 18 and above in the United States.

Further, their study showed that 43% of the people who used their mobile phones during sex are more likely to do it again at least 2 to 10 times in a year. Perhaps age plays a factor? The survey revealed that the younger the respondents are, particularly those aged 18 – 34, the more they are likely to do it; twice as likely in fact, than the respondents aged 35 – 51.

Anyway, it isn’t just during sex, guys. The respondents also admitted to using their smartphones in the shower (22%) and while they were in the toilet (69%).

As for me, I never use my smartphone while in the shower or toilet and most certainly not while having sex. But what about you, guys? How attached are you to your smartphone? Moreover, have you ever had to stop in the middle of having sex? Why? Also, what for you, is better than sex? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Hot or Not: Hairy Armpits https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/hot-or-not-hairy-armpits/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/hot-or-not-hairy-armpits/#comments Thu, 14 Jun 2018 15:53:56 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16965 (Photo Credits: Sean Cody) What do you think about hairy armpits, guys? Do you find it hot or not? Why..]]>

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What do you think about hairy armpits, guys? Do you find it hot or not? Why or why not?

Other gay men admit to getting really horny at the sight of hairy armpits while for others it’s a complete turn off. Some say they prefer hairy armpits because for them it’s a “symbol of masculinity.” In addition, they think it’s odd for a man to shave his armpits. Other gay men on the other hand, say hairy armpits turn them on because “natural look is hot while shaved is not” which goes to show how different we all are. I mean if we all want the same thing then life will be boring.

That being said, I personally find trimmed pits hot. For me, trimmed pits are sexy and aesthetically pleasing not to mention it feels cleaner and fresh smelling. As for pits with long, bushy hair, well, that’s what the guy prefers so it’s cool, those are his pits after all. Whether people shave, trim, or not I’m fine with that as long as I don’t see or smell something foul (which can happen whether the pits are shaved or not mind you, but shaving or trimming does help control underarm odor).

Anyway, online threads and some studies show that most men of today prefer to trim or shave their armpits either for aesthetic or athletic reasons while at least 10% to 22% prefer the au naturel look. But that’s them, what about you, guys? Do you get horny too whenever you see a hairy armpit? Share with us your thoughts and hairy armpit stories in the comments section below.

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Equality: What Do You Think Of This New Pride Flag? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/equality-what-do-you-think-of-this-new-pride-flag/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/equality-what-do-you-think-of-this-new-pride-flag/#comments Wed, 13 Jun 2018 15:37:58 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16959 Image Credit: Daniel Quasar Kickstarter Over the years, the Pride flag has undergone a number of transformations. The first Pride..]]>

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Over the years, the Pride flag has undergone a number of transformations. The first Pride flag designed by Gilbert Baker in 1978 originally had eight colors, with a meaning attached to each color.

After Harvey Milk’s assassination in November 1978, demand for the rainbow flag increased, and Baker had to drop the hot pink stripe to keep up with the demand. By 1979, the turquoise stripe was also discarded, resulting in the six-stripe version — red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and violet.

Last year, the Philadelphia City Hall version of the Pride flag had black and brown stripes added to it to represent black LGBTQ people. Outside of the United States, the Love Fest in Sao Paulo revealed a Pride flag that had nine colors.

Most recently, a designer in Oregon has come up with a new design for the rainbow flag. Daniel Quasar, who prefers xe/xem/xyr pronouns, proposed a rainbow flag that puts white, pink, light blue, brown, and black stripes in an arrow over the more recognizable six-striped rainbow flag.

According to Quasar, the light blue, pink, and white stripes come from the transgender flag. The brown and black stripes represent people of color and those who live with AIDS, those who have died of it, and the stigma that surrounds them.

Quasar has been raising funds for the flag on KickStarter, with a goal of $14,000 to produce nylon flags that are three feet wide and five feet long. As of this writing, the KickStarter has raised $17,386.

What we want to hear from our Adam4Adam blog readers is if this flag is something that they’ll support. Do you agree that it’s a more inclusive flag? Or do you think that the current rainbow flag is fine as it is? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.

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Speak Out: Awkward Place to Have a Boner https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/speak-out-awkward-place-to-have-a-boner/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/speak-out-awkward-place-to-have-a-boner/#comments Tue, 12 Jun 2018 14:02:50 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16951 It’s safe to say that all of us have an awkward boner experience to share. It’s probably happened to the..]]>

It’s safe to say that all of us have an awkward boner experience to share. It’s probably happened to the best of us, as it’s something that we can’t control. The question is where were you when you had an unwanted erection and what did you do in order to hide it? More importantly, did you succeed in hiding your raging boner or did anybody notice?

There’s so many places where you could get a boner. You could get one in the gym, when you’re exercising and looking at all the bodies around you. You’re probably wearing a pair of sweatpants that make your erection extremely noticeable. Even worse, you could get one while you’re in the shower surrounded by other men, and there’s no hiding there.

Maybe you were out having a good time with your buddies from college and this guy whom you’ve had a long-term crush flirted or talked with you? Or maybe you smell him and then unfortunately, without warning, you popped a boner for everyone else to see.

Perhaps you’re in the changing room in the mall, and you think of all the naughty things you can get up to with the right guy while in that small space. Now you’re stuck there while you wait for your erection to deflate.

What if you’re doing a presentation and your mind wanders to that hot hook-up you had last night, or you catch the eye of your office crush and his body language is quite plainly telling you that he’s down to have sex if you are — maybe even right here in the office. Have you ever popped a boner when you’re the center of this much attention?

Anyway, any awkward boner stories to share, guys? How did you get out of that hard situation? Did you pretend not to notice? Scramble for cover? What? Share with us your boner stories in the comments section below.

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Speak Out: Living the American Gay Dream https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/speak-out-living-the-american-gay-dream/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/speak-out-living-the-american-gay-dream/#comments Mon, 11 Jun 2018 16:12:33 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16945 (Photo Credits: Sean Cody) In our previous articles, some of us admitted that they are the fuck and go type...]]>

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In our previous articles, some of us admitted that they are the fuck and go type. But what about those at the other end of the spectrum, are there any Adam4Adam members who prefer the “American Gay Dream” You know, the whole nine yards: a loving husband, a nice job, a nice car, a large house with a white picket fence, maybe two or three kids, and a dog.

We are asking because we stumbled upon a particular thread online where the original poster (OP) said that gay men never do or want to settle down. Personally, I think that our wants and needs change as time goes by. Maybe we sleep around while we are young, but there comes a point in our life where we realize we have changed, that we are now tired of playing the field.

When that happens, it’s when we crave for something more: we want to find love, we want commitment, to settle down even. You know, like Matt Bomer and Simon Halls, Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black, and Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka to name a few. In real life, I know three gay couples who have been together for years and two of them have a child as well. They are these run-of-the-mill sorts of guys: the first one is a young couple in their early 30s; they’re both entrepreneurs and they have an adopted son, now 6 years old. The other is in their 50s, both high school teachers (the other is a school principal), they don’t have kids but they’ve been together for around 30 years. The third couple on the other hand, is in their 60s (one of them is a dermatologist, the other an office worker) with an adopted daughter who is now in her early 20s.

Anyway, what about you guys? Do you see yourself as a family man? Are you the type who will settle down once the right guy comes along or are you the lone wolf type? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.

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Watch This: Would You Buy Justin Bieber’s Used Underwear? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-would-you-buy-justin-biebers-used-underwear/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-would-you-buy-justin-biebers-used-underwear/#comments Sat, 09 Jun 2018 16:40:08 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16937 (Photo Credits: Screengrab from Clevver News YouTube) Canadian singer and songwriter Shawn Mendes said during an episode of The Late..]]>

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Canadian singer and songwriter Shawn Mendes said during an episode of The Late Late Show with James Corden that yes, he would buy fellow Canadian popstar Justin Bieber’s used underwear for $500.

The topic somehow shifted to Justin and James Corden asked Shawn this particular question. Moreover, the duo both agreed on one thing: they wanted to know when Justin wore them and what he specifically did when he was wearing the pair of underwear they’d hypothetically buy. Take a look at the aforementioned episode below.

By the way, Justin Bieber did mention in an interview a few years back that he doesn’t wear the same underwear twice but he did also say that he throws them away. But, he did save one of his used underwear. And early this year, said used underwear was put on display in a museum in his hometown of Stratford, Ontario during an exhibit dedicated to him titled Justin Bieber Exhibit – Steps to Stardom.

Having said that, buying and selling used underwear is nothing new (but no, Adam4Adam doesn’t sell used underwear, just new ones). And the dirty underwear business exists because, well, clearly there is a demand and it does seem lucrative. Simply put, plenty of men out there have a dirty underwear fetish because they find the smell of used underwear quite a turn on. What about you though? Are you turned on by it? Why or why not?

Anyway, are you a Shawn Mendes fan? What’s your favorite Shawn Mendes song? And, going back to our original question, would you also buy Justin Bieber’s used underwear? Do you have a dirty underwear fetish? Share with us your thoughts and your underwear stories in the comments section below.

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Watch This: Igor Kolomiyets Talks about Meditation https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-igor-kolomiyets-talks-about-meditation/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2018/06/watch-this-igor-kolomiyets-talks-about-meditation/#comments Fri, 08 Jun 2018 13:32:46 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=16930 (Photo Credits: Screengrab from Igor Kolomiyets Instagram) Hey, guys! Do you love meditating? Yes? No? Not a fan of it?..]]>

(Photo Credits: Screengrab from Igor Kolomiyets Instagram)

Hey, guys! Do you love meditating? Yes? No? Not a fan of it? Perhaps Igor Kolomiyets will change your mind after you watch his video below. It’s just a short clip really so it won’t hurt to take a look. Anyway, the video in question—which has garnered the attention of the netizens—was shared by Twitter user @ConanGShore and it was captioned: “The instagays have lost it.”

In the video, Iggy talked about meditation and wearing crystal underwear, crystal shirts, and crystal pants. What’s meditation you ask? Well, it’s the thing you do when you want to “turn your attention away from distracting thoughts and focus on the present moment,” says Psychology Today. Meditation involves “focusing on the breath, on bodily sensations, or on a word or phrase known as a mantra.”

I don’t think the netizens learned how to meditate after viewing Iggy’s meditation guide as they’re simply too busy ogling the guy. Some tweeps on the other hand, couldn’t care less about the meditation thingy and asked Iggy to just move the stone away from his crotch instead.

Anyway, if you haven’t heard of Igor Kolomiyets before this, Iggy is a Ukranian-born model based in Los Angeles. He is 23 years old and he admires British model David Gandy. In an interview with Out Magazine, Iggy said he is actually very shy, quiet, and inexpressive when not in front of the camera. He loves playing games on his laptop and he loves eating junk food and sweets like cupcakes, apple pies, chips, cookies, and ice cream.

Want more of Igor Kolomiyets? Check him out on Instagram and don’t forget to add Adam4Adam’s official Instagram account while you are at it.

Happy viewing!

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