Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog World's best free gay dating and hookup site Thu, 23 Feb 2017 12:48:57 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/cropped-logo-150x150.png Adam4Adam's Blog https://www.adam4adam.com/blog 32 32 Music: Katy Perry’s “Chained to the Rhythm” https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/music-katy-perrys-chained-rhythm/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/music-katy-perrys-chained-rhythm/#comments Thu, 23 Feb 2017 12:48:40 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14128 katy perryPhoto Credits: Screengrab from YouTube Katy Perry takes us to an amusement park called Oblivia in her music video for..

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Katy Perry takes us to an amusement park called Oblivia in her music video for her newest single titled Chained to the Rhythm. 

The colorful video however, is in stark contrast to the song’s danceable tune and lyrics that is riddled with irony. It contains lines such as, “Are we crazy?/Living our lives through a lens/Trapped in our white picket fence/Like ornaments/So comfortable, we’re living in a bubble, bubble/So comfortable, we cannot see the trouble, trouble”

Watch the video below which has already garnered over 8.3M views as of this writing.

Chained to the Rhythm urges listeners to be critical thinkers by seeing beyond their own happy place and see the world—the situation—for what it truly is. While the theme is applicable to any real life situations and various other life issues, critics are calling Chained to the Rhythm a “cultural and politically-charged song.”

Perry said in an interview with Access Hollywood that Chained to the Rhythm is meant to “start conversations and pose a question in our mind.” She proceeded to encourage everyone to listen to each other (to family and otherwise), to consider both sides of an argument, because that is the only way for us to achieve unity.

Chained to the Rhythm is reportedly co-written by Sia. It features Skip Marley, Bob Marley’s grandson, and is currently No. 4 on Billboard’s Hot 100. With 108,000 downloads on its first week, it debuted at No. 3 on Digital Song Sales and No. 15 on Streaming Songs at 14.7 million.

What do you think about Katy Perry’s new song, guys? Do you like it? Let us hear your thoughts on the comment section below.

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Watch This: Kilted Yoga https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/watch-kilted-yoga/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/watch-kilted-yoga/#comments Wed, 22 Feb 2017 14:51:28 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14122 Hi, guys! Happy Wednesday! For me, nothing beats the sand, sun, and Saint Martin’s magnificent view to start my week...

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Hi, guys! Happy Wednesday! For me, nothing beats the sand, sun, and Saint Martin’s magnificent view to start my week. What about you? We hope that your week had a good start.

In any case we are sharing this video over at Facebook of two men doing yoga in the wilds, in kilts mind you, and it is creating waves online. Said video has garnered over 17 million views as of this writing and let me tell you it’s more than the stunning backdrop of nature or the guys’ amazing display of power, strength, and grace. And muscles, let’s not forget that. Lol. Watch them below to find out why.


The guys are reportedly Mr. Scotland 2016 Tristan Cameron-Harper and Finlay Thomas Wilson—a yoga teacher from Dundee, Scotland.

A separate video of Mr. Wilson is going viral. His yoga buddy in this video is his dog Amaloh, now dubbed as The Yoga Dog. The video talks about the heartwarming story of their meeting in Sri Lanka but I have a feeling the netizens are checking out the video for an entirely different reason altogether.


Can’t get enough of Finlay and Tristan? Check them out here and here. Don’t forget to follow our Facebook account, Twitter, my Instagram and A4A Instagram account as well for more hotties like Finlay and Tristan.

Have a wonderful week, guys! Cheers!

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Sexuality: Ever Had An Orgasm From Anal Sex? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/sexuality-ever-orgasm-anal-sex/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/sexuality-ever-orgasm-anal-sex/#comments Mon, 20 Feb 2017 16:22:14 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14117 photo credits : Icon Male As much as pornography would have us think otherwise, the truth is not all gay..

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As much as pornography would have us think otherwise, the truth is not all gay couple engage or even like anal sex. The authors of the 2008 book “Psychology Applied to Modern Life: Adjustment in the 21st Century” revealed that in an internet survey of MSM (men who have sex with men) across Europe, it was shown that “oral sex was most commonly practised, followed by mutual masturbation, with anal intercourse in third place”.

It’s easy to understand why this is the case. Anal sex requires a lot of preparation — from douching to lubing to making sure that you don’t hurt yourself in the process. It’s a lot to worry about, so it’s also not a surprise that not a lot of bottoms can maintain an erection or have an orgasm while having anal sex.

To quote Michael M. Ross’ Psychopathology and Psychotherapy in Homosexuality, “Most men seem to accept that stimulation from receptive anal intercourse alone is unlike to result in an orgasm.”

But that’s not to say it can’t be achieved. After all, the best way to reach and stimulate the prostate is through anal activity. And there’s no shortage of people who will tell you that an orgasm achieved through prostate stimulation is much more intense, long-lasting, and probably make you bask in feelings of ecstasy afterwards.

So, here’s some questions for all of you Adam4Adam members. Have you ever had an orgasm from anal sex? If you have, help out those who’ve never experienced it and tell us how you achieved it! What tips can you give your fellow Adam4Adam members? Share it with us in the comment section below!

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Style : Spring Will be Navy, Red and White! https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/style-spring-will-navy-red-white/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/style-spring-will-navy-red-white/#comments Sun, 19 Feb 2017 14:23:05 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14059 photo credits : MrPorter This season’s biggest trend for men is inspired by the ocean. Everything related to to it,..

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This season’s biggest trend for men is inspired by the ocean. Everything related to to it, whether it is boats, fish, turtles, shells, red/navy stripes, white color, starfish, nets, navy camo, blue denim, white shoes, navy/white stripes etc. Navy double-breasted blazers are worn over everything, pants are cropped, accessories are also fun and fresh, sandals are bold and bright, shirts are wide and printed and the collar-camp is everywhere (notice the collar on the shirt below, that’s what we call a collar-camp).

Below are some of my favorites for the hot season, they are designer items so they are very pricy and just as a reference. You will be able to buy similar styles everywhere like Zara, H&M, Club Monaco, J.Crew and other affordable stores around the country. I don’t suggest spending hundreds on one piece unless it is a bag, a jacket, a blazer or shoes. You can carry these to the next couple of seasons so they are worth the investment, but T-shirts, sweaters and cotton pants are usually discolored or you simply get tired of them…So I suggest you buy affordable ones.

Tell me if you like that trend and if you think you’ll buy items from that trend? It is my personal favorite trend. Even when it’s not trendy, I dress in navy and white all the time. I’ll try to incorporate a bit of red to make it fresh this season. For me this trend is like a classic one it comes back almost every spring. Perfect timing for me to use that trend because I’m in St. Martin in the Caribbean right now so I’ll try to post photos of me on my Instagram, so follow me. FYI, I will keep on posting on the blog next week even if I’m off, I need to keep you guys busy reading… Have a good week!

Dave

 

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Sexuality: Reasons Why Straight Guys Sleep With Men https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/sexuality-reasons-straight-guys-sleep-men/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/sexuality-reasons-straight-guys-sleep-men/#comments Fri, 17 Feb 2017 03:29:22 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14087 Photo credit : Raging Stallion If we take porn as a kind of barometer of what gay men are into..

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If we take porn as a kind of barometer of what gay men are into sexually, it appears that straight men are oftentimes a part of the mix. Numerous gay porn sites got their starts with straight models. “Straight Guys” are a separate category on numerous free tube sites. This site even says it can help you sleep with straight guys without them even knowing.

The reasons why gay men are so drawn to straight guys are easy enough to understand. A lot of us probably had a crush on a straight guy when we were young, and some of us may have even fixated on them ever since. There’s also the fact that it’s thrilling knowing that this straight guy is doing something with you he wouldn’t usually do.

What’s murkier are the reasons why straight men sleep with guys. While not a comprehensive list by any measure, here are some reasons we came up with as to why straight men end up in bed with another man.

They’re not out yet. If the comments to this previous Adam4Adam blog post are any indication, the main reason why straight guys sleep with guys is because they’re not actually straight at all. Maybe it’s their religion, maybe they live in a hyper-masculine culture, maybe they’re just scared. So they maintain that they’re straight…at least for now.

It’s macho if you’re not the bottom. Back in a May 2002 issue of The Advocate, Gael Garcia Bernal was quoted as saying “It’s hard to explain; it’s a Mexican idiosyncracy, but you’re more macho if you fuck men, you know?” It’s not inconceivable that this mindset isn’t just something that exists in Mexico. In fact, if you go all the way back to Ancient Greece, the top was  associated with masculinity, higher social status, and adulthood, while the bottom was associated with femininity, lower social status, and youth.

It’s just a phase. If you’re lucky, you were probably told “It’s just a phase” when you first started feeling something for guys. And while that may not be the case for most of us, for some guys it really was just a phase. If you’re the guy he experimented with, good for you. And no, not because you bagged a straight guy, but because he trusted you enough to do something so intimate with you.

They’re into drag queens. If you’ve watched any season of RuPaul’s Drag Race — but particularly Season Six onwards — you’ll know that there are some men out there who will have sex with drag queens only if they stay in drag. So if you’re already a drag queen, maybe you just need to find the right straight guy.

They’re gay for pay. Just like we said at the top of this story, a lot of porn sites started out featuring straight guys doing decidedly not straight things, and while some of those models weren’t really straight, some of them are straight. The Tyra Banks Show even dedicated an episode on it!

These are just some of the reasons we think straights guys end up sleeping with gay guys. Have any other reasons as to why they do this? Share it with us in the comments section below!

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Watch This : The Hardest Job! https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/watch-hardest-job/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/watch-hardest-job/#comments Thu, 16 Feb 2017 02:59:24 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14079 Photo Credits: Screengrab from Facebook “You have the coolest job!” My friend gushed when I shared with her what I..

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“You have the coolest job!” My friend gushed when I shared with her what I do and then she launched on an explanation about what it was she did for a living. My work has its own challenges in the sense that sometimes I run out of words to say but I love what I do very much, so of course I agreed with her statement. Her occupation, on the other hand, sounded like a headache-inducing one (I only understood the words trend, analysis, and statistics.)

Another friend, told me the same thing. He’s in car repair business and he’s got a stressful job because the livelihood of many people rests on his shoulders, quite a responsibility, and not exactly his dream job (he wanted to be in agriculture).

Anyway, these conversations made me wonder time and again about the level of difficulties people must contend with on their respective jobs. But I guess everybody can agree that this guy below has got the hardest job. In fact I can hear a chorus of enthusiastic yeses followed by a collective sigh of envy. Watch the video below.

Ahem. Do you agree? In spite of the difficulty his work entails, netizens are jumping to volunteer for the job and I can see why. What is YOUR job? Is it your dream job? What would be your dream job?

Don’t forget to follow our Facebook account, Twitter, my Instagram and A4A Instagram account as well.

Here’s to wishing everyone a wonderful work week. Cheers!

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Dating : Is Beauty Important? https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/dating-beauty-important/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/dating-beauty-important/#comments Wed, 15 Feb 2017 15:33:04 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14073 beautifulmanHi, guys! We have two questions for you today. First, how do you define beauty and second, how important is..

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Hi, guys! We have two questions for you today. First, how do you define beauty and second, how important is beauty for you in a relationship?

Yes, we are talking about a guy’s physical appearance not the beauty within although there is that. And no, I’m not going to kid myself, for me beauty really does count. I must admit it is the first thing that I notice in a guy.

Say I’m walking down the street and there’s a guy with a beautiful smile on the other side. My gaze would sure linger a while longer on him than it normally would and I may even turn around and look back because I have a weakness for beautiful smiles, especially guys who smile with their eyes.

Anyway, there is no single defining trait that makes me take a second look at a guy. For me it actually varies. Sometimes it’s his beautiful eyes or hands or kissable lips that draw me to him. Sometimes it’s his height, or posture, and the way he carries himself.

The last one is important because a guy who carries himself and dresses himself well tells me that that man takes care of himself, that he is confident, and that he is radiating good vibes. And yes, beauty is important in a relationship in this way, bearing in mind that we all age with the passage of time naturally. But a person who can take care of himself physically is beautiful and it is important because a person who looks good actually feels good. He can feel it inside and you will feel that he does. In addition, when he feels good, he feels confident, and it boosts his self-esteem.

If I’m going to spend the rest of my life with him it means I sleep and wake up beside him every single day. He’s got to be someone I love looking at. He’s got to be beautiful in my eyes. Mine. He is not necessarily the “white, tall, and muscular gay man” or “tall, dark, and handsome” stereotype.

Personally I think we are drawn to faces that are nice to look at. It is part of human nature. But what is good is that each of us has our own idea of beauty and what must be good looking in my eyes might not be in yours. In any case, what does being beautiful mean to you and is it important in a relationship? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below.

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Dating : Valentine’s Day With a Fuckbuddy https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/matin-valentines-day-fuckbuddy/ https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/2017/02/matin-valentines-day-fuckbuddy/#comments Tue, 14 Feb 2017 14:15:38 +0000 https://www.adam4adam.com/blog/?p=14068 Photo Credits : Icon Male It’s Valentine’s Day. You are single but you are planning a night with your fuck..

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It’s Valentine’s Day. You are single but you are planning a night with your fuck buddy, how do you plan to make it (and the sex) different? You need to keep in mind that at the end of the day he’s a fuck buddy not really a lover, you therefore, don’t want to send mixed signals. Or is it that you want to take things to the next level with him? What you do for him this Valentine’s Day largely depend on what you want and where you want to be with him in the near future.

Whatever the case is, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the day with him because you can! Take a look at the ideas we’ve gathered below for your consideration.

  1. Clothes. Because he’s your FWB, sex is expected but there’s no reason why you shouldn’t put on something sexy, a hot pair of underwear for example like this one from curbwear. But why wear a pair of sexy underwear? Simple, there’s a special occasion and it’s a sex date so why not make an exception plus, a barely there underwear? It’s a huge turn on—no one is immune to its charms, no one—and it makes things in the bedroom department extra spicy
  2. Food. You could spray whipped cream or pour champagne on his abdomen, or you can drizzle his chest with a melted dark chocolate or an edible body icing and then get your mouth to work by licking and sucking it off of him. But, be mindful of food allergies. Otherwise, sex is heavenly this way and the two of you get to shower together afterwards as a bonus.
  3. Gifts. Worried a gift might be misconstrued? Well, not if you give him a sex toy or two. You can start with this Remote Control Plug which you can get for free until the 17th if you spend $49 or more on anything else in our Sex Shop. What about the Ultra Bator which can give him a more intense masturbation experience for when you are not there beside him?

So, how do you plan to celebrate your Valentine’s Day with your fuck buddy? Share with us your ideas in the comment section below. However way you spend the day, have fun guys and keep safe!

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