Fantasy : Role Playing?
I’ve been dating this guy for about 6 months now and everything is great. It’s amazing how much we are learning about each other.
We were flipping through the channels one night when Lockup came on. We watched for a couple minutes and he looked at me and said he use to watch the show and fantasize about being locked up with a hot inmate. I said something like “hot” and didn’t think anything else about it.
A couple days later I got a message asking when we were going to play out the Lockup scene. I was kind of turned on and said whenever he was ready. He said he was just joking but I knew it was planted in his mind.
Couple issues with this. First being: acting. You have to decide who is who and you have to stick to character in order for this to work. Second is the sex act, you aren’t here to do the same thing you always do!! No kissing for 10, sucking dick for 15, eating ass for 3 and fucking for 12. The purpose of role playing is to be someone else for a while. Try something new.
In this scene I don’t think the inmate on the top bunk( ME) would be interested in eating ass or kissing, it’s all about my dick getting sucked and sticking it in his ass, HARD. Now with anything, limits need to be respected but stopping and starting doesn’t do much for anyone. Give it a few goes and you might like it. Make sure you are on the same page. If he is thinking puppies and popsicles and you are thinking chains and masks, things might get confusing.
Make sure your relationship is at a good place and you have a healthy sex life. Fantasy is great and role playing can be a lot of fun, once in a while. Don’t let it be your primary way of having sex, sure we all might think about other people when we are having sex but we don’t have to think about being locked up with them, every time.