Gay Stuff : When Is It Official?
You meet a great guy while you are out one night and you get to talking. One thing leads to another and you go home with one another. You have a great time and talk the next day, you both have some free time so you decide to get together for some small talk.
You find yourself looking for reasons to talk to him, he is doing the same. There is definitely a connection. A few days go by and he says he has to talk to you, he comes over and starts to talk.
He says he really likes getting to know you and hopes it can continue but he isn’t going to tell people he is dating anyone just yet. He feels it is too soon for that, you look at him and ask him why he even brought it up.
He says because there are couple guys who he has been chatting with and he wants to keep his options open. You say fair enough but where does that leave you two? He says not to worry, he has no plans of dating anyone else. Confusing!!
So this brings me to my question: at what point do you tell each other you are dating? Is there a specific timeline you follow? If you had sex on the first date can you continue to have sex in the “getting to know each other” period? When do you tell potential dates: I’ve met someone and I want to see where it’s going to go?